People come and go, but what happens to those that dont come back?

when people leave this world, there's always people that are left behind.. but what if those people left behind are your own children? we will never know how the people that have passed on feel, all we see is the pain in the people that still live among us.. the pain and the teers that make the heart ache.. this is what many of us felt today when we found out that one of our own classmates had lost his mother today.. at first many of us didnt realize how bad it was, all we heard was that he was in germany and wouldnt be returning to school until next year, because of this tragedy.. that's why we were very surprised to see him in school.. among seeing him we realized the debth of this situation and it hurt us to see him like that.. Nermin and Amira understand me most right now.. i know this isn't something you should post on bloggy, but everytime i think of it and see his (teering) face infront of me, it hurts in the heart and i thought maybe by writing it down and getting out how i feel it would make it a little easier.. it was really sad to know that he thought his mother would be ok, but i'm glad he got to see her berfore it happened.. i'm just sorry there's nothing I could do.. I'm not very good friends with him, so i wasnt sure what to say.. i guess just letting him know that we we'd be there for him if ever he needed anythin is the most any one of us could have done.. now all we can do it give him his space and time and hope he'll be ok and come back to us, because it'd be a shame to not have him in our class anymore next year.. although many say that he's probably gonna be ok, i still cant get it into my head (or imagine) how anyone can really be OK after losing a person so close to you.. but i wish him all the luck in the world and hope he gets through this.. obviously it's gonna be very tough, but with the help of friends and family i think he'll make it.. so.. mein Beileid an dich und alles Gute, Selim.. HabenDichLieb und werden dich vermissen!!